We are born selfish in nature. We are doing things, most of the time, for our benefits. And when it comes to love, since it is our nature, we are loving selfishly. We want the person we love to stays with us. We want the person we love to love no other person. We want the world of the person we love to revolve around us.
Definition: AFFAIR A romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other.
Since we are loving selfishly, why is that affair happens? why did someone cheats? Why did someone loves not only one?
I can really really don't understand why there are people who cheat to their partner. They are being unfaithful. They are not contented with loving one person. And I somehow don't understand how a person says "I love you" to more than one person at a time.
I just hope, our generation will no longer commit with having an affair with someone. I pray that our generation is the generation of faithful and committed wives and husbands in the future.
Disclaimer: I am not encouraging you to love selfishly. The bible clearly states that Love is not self seeking
( 1Corinthians 13:5)